Blogging and The New Beginning

I have gone back and forth in my mind  a few times.  I have had long discussions with close friends on how much I should blog and how much I should just say to heck with and go forward.  But the bottom line is at the moment there are a lot of high emotions as well as legal proceedings involving settlements, custody, and all other divorce fun.  So I think although there is a lot I would like to share, laugh about and open up about…… in the end I think I need to just not go there.  So I will still blog, but a lot of my personal life is  going to stay very quiet.

Having said that, I do very much appreciate everyone touching base with me!!!  I am VERY happy being home.  I have moved in with a very good friend that I have known since I was fourteen.  We used to motorcycle ride together.  It is very nice having someone help with house work, to have someone I can trust to watch the princess, who cooks dinner….. better than me!  Life is good!

Soon I hope to have my machine back together.  It may be in the garage temporarily.  I plan on calling gammill later today or next week. You know….. in all my spare time….  I still can not believe how life can change on a dime.  But I still believe that if  you can be still and open,  serendipity happens every time.  I am very thankful for that!!!

So….. what color fiestaware should I start considering to go with the four place settings of gray I ended up with.  I can’t decide…….

Jan

14 Responses to “Blogging and The New Beginning”

  1. kayp Says:

    PINK! but you knew i’d say that. :) i don’t care what you blog about it’s just good to know you are doing ok and doing what is best for you and jess.

  2. Jan Says:

    LOL Why does that not surprise me?!!! :-D We are good! Very good!!! I feel better than I have for years. And developmentally she has just been jumping through hoops because she is around more people.

  3. Freda Henderson Says:

    Just keep blogging Jan, we don’t care about what. We just got home from Lynn’s appointment. He will have a heart cath done March 24 cause the stress test show reduced flow of blood to the back of his heart. They weren’t real happy about his fainting episode either, before they can say he can have brain surgery more testing is called for. That is all right with me but he’s not happy about it.

  4. Jan Says:

    I am so glad you checked in Freda!! I was thinking about you wondering how it went. It sounds like you have your hands full still!!

  5. Suzanne Says:

    When you posted that you were moving your Gammill and needed advice, I wondered what was going on, and while I hate to hear that you are going through so much, it sounds like you are happy with the choices you are making, and that’s all that really counts.

    I vote for RED.

    LOL

  6. Jan Says:

    Red would be good! :-) Isn’t that supposed to be a good feung shei color?!

  7. Karen Langseth Says:

    I’m glad your life is coming together…..I agree with Kay, Pink is a great choice. The Punks look like they are adjusting well….I look forward to seeing more of them. I agree in seeing if trading the table would be an option.

  8. Jami Says:

    Girl…You blog about whatever you want! I just like being able to stop by and checking on you. When you are silent, I worry about you both!! Take care of you and yours!

  9. Jan Says:

    Thanks guys!!!!!!!!

  10. taria Says:

    I just hope the transition goes as smooth as possible for you. Only you can know how much you want to share with ‘the world’. Sounds like you have figured it out. It can be fluid as
    your needs are too. So far as the dishes. I vote paper, in white. Matches everything and
    care is really easy. You girls take care and know we are sending positive thoughts your
    way.

  11. Jan Says:

    Taria! I love the way you think LOL Thanks for the positive thoughts!! Hope you and James are doing well!!

  12. becca Says:

    Well you KNOW I am going to say Red! But I think go for them all be WILD and let go! Lol. Honey there is som much about my private life I dont blog about either. I can honestly tell you my family ( I am not talking my immediate, of course they know) doesnt even know I have a blog! Its mine and its personal even if I dont get personal. So you know you put out there what ever the heck you want. Go with your gut feeling. I just like to know you are in a good place.

  13. becca Says:

    Oh yeah havent mailed your box yet. I am not trying to drive you nuts.Lol. Just laid up with a migrane. Life is looking better now though and not painful.Lol

  14. Jan Says:

    Becca, that’s a nice way of putting it. Because at the end of the day when it all boils down… it’s all personal….. and when you get to the box, you get to the box…. I’m not worried. BJut I am glad you migraine is better!!!!!!